Sometimes things happen that we don't expect. Sometimes those things hurt like hell. The thing that we don't realize is these things that happen might possibly be a part of God's great plan for our lives. Maybe we were being stubborn and trying to control our own destiny. So what if it doesn't work out, there are better things in store for us that we are unaware of and many blessings to come our way that are just for us, but to get to those blessings in some cases we have to go through some things. God does things in our lives to prepare us for the bright future that he has for each and every single one of us. What is for you is for you and what is for me is for me.
So today I found out my ex is expecting a child. I must say that is not something you want to here from your ex. My emotions and feelings about it were numb. I didn't know how to feel when I heard it. I couldn't feel excited, I couldn't feel upset. I couldn't laugh or cry. I really didn't know how to feel. Kinda like when your mouth is numb and you dont know that you are slobbing. That's kind of how I felt.
The message I am trying to get across here is sometimes break-ups and people leave your life for a reason. Honestly I'm glad it wasn't me because it easily could have been me. God is working wonders in our lives and we never seem to realize it, so the next time something happens in your life and you are feeling so much pain and hatred about a situation think of it as a blessing in disguise. The person that hurts you will get what they deserve, and you will get what you deserve. Start looking at everything as a blessing in disguise.
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Sometimes we don't realize what's good for us until it hits us on the head. I remember when my ex and I, he was like my first love and everything, kinda reconnected. At the time he also had a girlfriend which hurt me but I felt like I could fight for him. At the end of the day he chose her over me and I was crushed. Since then I've made some mistakes but I know better now not to make the same mistake twice. We reconnect as friends even though he wanted more. Of course I had to decline that part. I said all this in saying even though we have plans for our own lives God plans overrides them all. I've learned that everything comes in due season which means everything you want good in your life if it is God's desire it shall come to pass in due season Psalms 1:3. Everyone you love now might not always be there forever but the point is is that they served their purpose for that particular season in your life and just remember God has better plans in store.
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