Saturday, January 2, 2010

Let the Games Begin

Ok, so people are always talking about the "game of love". When you really think about it, that is life in general, but I'm going to stay on topic. With love the person that brings their "A" game wins the prize. The prize is your heart. The question is how hard are you going to make people work for it? Yeah, pretty hard if you want that real love. You don't want to make yourself too easy and too available. Once you get out of grade school, the competition gets fierce. People will cheat and do all types of dirty trickery things to try to "win" you. It's when you let them when you realize that they are actually hurting you and making the game a whole lot tougher for others.
I feel that I need to expand on this "A" game. When it comes to sports and video games people with a true love for it will put their best into it and that's what you need to do to win a heart. Not only once you get the person's attention but you also need to keep playing your cards right, or running the right plays to keep them. One wrong move and you lose, someone else is running off with your trophy. Some people have been playing longer than others and some people have been cheated and robbed from, so they may know how to play better than you. Only the strong survive in this game. Its survival of the fittest, smartest, and bravest. If you don't fall into any of those, then boy do I feel for you.
Go out and meet people while you are single. See how people are acting. Look at their reactions to what you do and how you live your life. See what pet peeves you discover about yourself that you may not have known that you had. You have to go through some things to know what you will put up with and deal with. Don't rush into anything and I promise you will find exactly what it is that you are looking for. I know everyone isn't all religious and stuff but some people do believe that God created someone for them. Men are running around trying to find their rib and Women are SUPPOSED to be out in the open waiting to be found. God may not come when you want him but he will be there on time. This can apply to finding the right person because you need to be patient. Your time will come when you are ready. Rushing will only cause problems. Like I said before, Love is game, play smart. If love was chess you wouldn't just move across the board like "O its doesn't matter what I do, I'm going to win". You need to protect your heart the way you protect your king. I mean confidence is one thing but please don't be full of yourself. Be patient. Play your cards right and Let the games begin.

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