People fall in love all the time, and sometimes it happens so fast that when they realize it they either get greedy or they get scared. Allow me to expand on each.
You meet someone who is everything that you never would have thought you would recieve. If this person happens to be your "first love" or at least what you think is, you get greedy. You meet other people and start wondering if things could go up hill if you get with someone else. Maybe there is better out there right? Well allow me to be one of the first to tell you....WRONG. That is NOT ALWAYS the case. Everything that glitters aint gold.
SOMETIMES you may be lucky and end up with someone that is better, but in this day and time your chances of meeting someone that treats you right is slim to none.
Scared people feel all these emotions and they don't know how to handle them. They feel that things are moving to fast and they really cant control it. God forbid they lose control of their feelings. So now their heart is in it and they want to escape "the rush". Well, that causes them to leave and let go of that one person that they might ever have in their life that will actually treat them right.
Love will make you stupid.
Think about how many times people fall in love and all the crap they put up with. Stupid right? If you don't think so you might be in the situation and I can tell you right now the people looking at you are thinking you are pretty stupid. Other ways people become stupid is they leave people who are good for them; people that make them complete. I cant say I have ever done this because I have yet to meet someone that makes me feel this way, but I do have friends that explain these feelings of love to me. I have my own way of how I believe love should feel but thats another blog for another day.
I guess what I am really trying to say to you is, if you do find someone that is going to treat you right, then stick with them. It is hard to find someone that is going to want you for more than sex, respect your mind, dreams, and ambitions. Its a hard world out there. People these days can care less about behaving, so be smart in making decisions and don't waste your time on people who aren't willing to make sacrifices for you but expect you to make some for them. Double standards never loved anyone.
(Everything I have blogged is strictly opinion. I am not responsible for any bad decisions you may make in your life and I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to hit me up if you have any questions. Poeticdiva06@gmail.com )
Monday, July 19, 2010
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Wont step up? Dont step Up
Im not sure if i have covered this topic before, but for those of you who do follow me on the regular and stay up to date with my blogs, one of my twitter followers pointed something out today. She tweeted, "Fellas, if you don't step up, somebody else will...the same goes for us, females, too" and "With that last tweet said...if you're not willing to step up for someone, please...do us a favor and don't step to that someone!"
I for one can say that I do agree with what she is saying. I am not about the games and I would love for someone to step their game up and show me that they are in fact different from the other guys who have tried to approach me. For example: I have tried guys who like and try to talk to but take me no where, guys who think I should be the one that calls them and they not call me, guys who dont care about whether I want to see them or not it will happen when they want it to. All of them need to step their game up. There are also the other guys that I have friends that have attempted such as the hit and run guy, the i like you but ima try to hook you up with my friend guy, and the i dont know what i want guy but i know that i want you. Again, all these guys need to step their game up.
This is MY personal opinion so if you dont like it feel free to voice your opinion. My feelings will not get hurt. But like I was saying, if a guy wants to talk to me then he really needs to step his game up. Dont be the type who doesnt take me out, doesnt desire or attempt to take me out and think that Im going to give you the time of day. If a person likes me, they have to show me they like me. They have to put in the effort that others have refused to put in. And on top of all that, they gotta show me that they arent trying to play me and arent trying to make me look stupid, because I can tell you right now, I dont have time for the games. I been there, done that, dealt with that with friends and have observed what others have gone through. Anyone thats on that I'll leave her for you crap, or that yeah we can go out but we been talkin for how long crap, or the come on let me hit before I get with you or before I marry you crap can keep it moving. We can be friends but to be with me you gotta step your game up. If a person approaching me isnt planning on trying to make themselves stand out from the rest, dont even waste your time to approach me because like most you will get turned down.
For those of you who dont understand the concept of stepping your game up allow me to explain it to you. If you are stepping your game up you are bringing your game up to the next level. You have to make yourself stand out from all the others that are trying to talk to that person. You have to put in the effort and NOT slack off back into your old ways, which would be stepping your game down. The moment you do, like my follower said, someone else will come in and take over what you supposidly worked so hard to get. You will lose. So what do you prefer, to step ya game up and get the person you want, or to get them, be on the bull and lose them because you were slacking?
Someone once told me that once you can get into someone's head and have them thinking about you on a regular, you are in there. You actually have a chance, but I hope I got my message across, cause I personally feel that everything i said is something to think about.
I for one can say that I do agree with what she is saying. I am not about the games and I would love for someone to step their game up and show me that they are in fact different from the other guys who have tried to approach me. For example: I have tried guys who like and try to talk to but take me no where, guys who think I should be the one that calls them and they not call me, guys who dont care about whether I want to see them or not it will happen when they want it to. All of them need to step their game up. There are also the other guys that I have friends that have attempted such as the hit and run guy, the i like you but ima try to hook you up with my friend guy, and the i dont know what i want guy but i know that i want you. Again, all these guys need to step their game up.
This is MY personal opinion so if you dont like it feel free to voice your opinion. My feelings will not get hurt. But like I was saying, if a guy wants to talk to me then he really needs to step his game up. Dont be the type who doesnt take me out, doesnt desire or attempt to take me out and think that Im going to give you the time of day. If a person likes me, they have to show me they like me. They have to put in the effort that others have refused to put in. And on top of all that, they gotta show me that they arent trying to play me and arent trying to make me look stupid, because I can tell you right now, I dont have time for the games. I been there, done that, dealt with that with friends and have observed what others have gone through. Anyone thats on that I'll leave her for you crap, or that yeah we can go out but we been talkin for how long crap, or the come on let me hit before I get with you or before I marry you crap can keep it moving. We can be friends but to be with me you gotta step your game up. If a person approaching me isnt planning on trying to make themselves stand out from the rest, dont even waste your time to approach me because like most you will get turned down.
For those of you who dont understand the concept of stepping your game up allow me to explain it to you. If you are stepping your game up you are bringing your game up to the next level. You have to make yourself stand out from all the others that are trying to talk to that person. You have to put in the effort and NOT slack off back into your old ways, which would be stepping your game down. The moment you do, like my follower said, someone else will come in and take over what you supposidly worked so hard to get. You will lose. So what do you prefer, to step ya game up and get the person you want, or to get them, be on the bull and lose them because you were slacking?
Someone once told me that once you can get into someone's head and have them thinking about you on a regular, you are in there. You actually have a chance, but I hope I got my message across, cause I personally feel that everything i said is something to think about.
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