Monday, July 19, 2010

Love WILL make you Stupid

People fall in love all the time, and sometimes it happens so fast that when they realize it they either get greedy or they get scared. Allow me to expand on each.

You meet someone who is everything that you never would have thought you would recieve. If this person happens to be your "first love" or at least what you think is, you get greedy. You meet other people and start wondering if things could go up hill if you get with someone else. Maybe there is better out there right? Well allow me to be one of the first to tell you....WRONG. That is NOT ALWAYS the case. Everything that glitters aint gold.
SOMETIMES you may be lucky and end up with someone that is better, but in this day and time your chances of meeting someone that treats you right is slim to none.
Scared people feel all these emotions and they don't know how to handle them. They feel that things are moving to fast and they really cant control it. God forbid they lose control of their feelings. So now their heart is in it and they want to escape "the rush". Well, that causes them to leave and let go of that one person that they might ever have in their life that will actually treat them right.

Love will make you stupid.

Think about how many times people fall in love and all the crap they put up with. Stupid right? If you don't think so you might be in the situation and I can tell you right now the people looking at you are thinking you are pretty stupid. Other ways people become stupid is they leave people who are good for them; people that make them complete. I cant say I have ever done this because I have yet to meet someone that makes me feel this way, but I do have friends that explain these feelings of love to me. I have my own way of how I believe love should feel but thats another blog for another day.

I guess what I am really trying to say to you is, if you do find someone that is going to treat you right, then stick with them. It is hard to find someone that is going to want you for more than sex, respect your mind, dreams, and ambitions. Its a hard world out there. People these days can care less about behaving, so be smart in making decisions and don't waste your time on people who aren't willing to make sacrifices for you but expect you to make some for them. Double standards never loved anyone.

(Everything I have blogged is strictly opinion. I am not responsible for any bad decisions you may make in your life and I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to hit me up if you have any questions. Poeticdiva06@gmail.com )

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