Think B4 You Act: I didn't want to be tied to you...or I didnt want to lose you

There is a growing problem that I have found is getting worse as the day gets old. Many people, men and women, are engaging in so many sexual activities. Problems become life changing issues. Sex becomes an escape and a prison all at the same time with no warning in between.
One problem that people seem to be facing or dealing with is someone they aren't trying to keep in their life, becoming a permanent part of their life. Sleeping with men and women; becoming or getting someone pregnant...then they get mad because they didn't want her to be their baby mama, or they wish he wasn't their baby daddy. Well guess what...he or she is. And its not like you didn't have a choice. You slept with them and something magical happened and boom...now you have a child.
The way I see it, if you don't want that person to have your baby, or if you don't want to have that person's baby, then maybe you should refuse to have sex with them. You can't get mad at a decision that you made. You can regret it, but at the time of doing it, Im sure regret was not on your mind.

Now...for the next part of this blog

The people who are running around regretting losing someone that was special to them because of their actions. You knew what you were doing. You knew that person would not approve. You did it anyway out of spite. Then when you find out that person is saying goodbye you want to cry and be upset. You want to ring their phone off the hook. You want to regret your actions after you begin dealing with the consequences.

Maybe as people who seek attention, physically and emotionally, and possibly mentally need to think before we act. We are always thinking about the now, the today, the this very second. We are allowing our IDs to take over our Super Ego. We know what is wrong and what is right, but because at the moment we dont think we will get caught we continue. You can't live like that. There will be a lifetime of regret for people you jump before they think.
Before you lay in the bed with someone or do something that you think MIGHT hurt someone, think about this...

Would you jump off of a bridge before you think about how you would feel with nothing under your feet. Would you jump before you imagine yourself hitting the ground and possibly blacking out or dying. Would you do it? No because you are afraid. Why not be afraid of birthing the baby of someone you can't stand. Why not be afraid of getting a disease that you cant get rid of? Why not fear someone walking out of your life or just leaving you and you can never ever talk to or see them again regardless of how hard you try to make things work out. Why not?

Think of life as you standing on the end of a bridge. Think about whether you are willing to face the consequences of your actions when you do fall. Maybe if you do this you can step back and realize its really not worth it.