Monday, August 30, 2010

Speak Up or Forever Hold Your Piece

People get approached all the time, but some of us are so picky that we don't realize when something with REAL potential is right in our face. We ignore it, stereotype it, and keep moving. But what would happen if we really gave that thing/person a chance?

Have you ever met someone and just felt like everything about them was real? Everything they did matched a picture in your mind? I have found that when something like this occurs you have to open your mouth the moment that you start feeling something that you would love to go somewhere. Yes you are putting yourself out there, but you have to be strong. So strong to the point where if you do get rejected, you are able to bounce back and know that it was not meant to be, and if it turns out to be, that moment was not the right time. You will miss out on the best thing that can ever walk into your life if you just ignore these feelings. If it doesn't work out don't think of it as wasted time, think of it as a lesson learned. Think of it as something to help you advance to the next part of your life.

If you aren't going to open your mouth and speak up for something you want, then you need to just be quiet. You can't beat yourself up about something that you didn't attempt. If you ever make it to that point, then its your fault. Now if you wait too long and that person moves on that's how the cookie crumbles. Never rush into anything, but be smart about everything.

For all you know it can be a blessing to prepare you for one better.