Wont step up? Dont step Up

Im not sure if i have covered this topic before, but for those of you who do follow me on the regular and stay up to date with my blogs, one of my twitter followers pointed something out today. She tweeted, "Fellas, if you don't step up, somebody else will...the same goes for us, females, too" and "With that last tweet said...if you're not willing to step up for someone, please...do us a favor and don't step to that someone!"
I for one can say that I do agree with what she is saying. I am not about the games and I would love for someone to step their game up and show me that they are in fact different from the other guys who have tried to approach me. For example: I have tried guys who like and try to talk to but take me no where, guys who think I should be the one that calls them and they not call me, guys who dont care about whether I want to see them or not it will happen when they want it to. All of them need to step their game up. There are also the other guys that I have friends that have attempted such as the hit and run guy, the i like you but ima try to hook you up with my friend guy, and the i dont know what i want guy but i know that i want you. Again, all these guys need to step their game up.
This is MY personal opinion so if you dont like it feel free to voice your opinion. My feelings will not get hurt. But like I was saying, if a guy wants to talk to me then he really needs to step his game up. Dont be the type who doesnt take me out, doesnt desire or attempt to take me out and think that Im going to give you the time of day. If a person likes me, they have to show me they like me. They have to put in the effort that others have refused to put in. And on top of all that, they gotta show me that they arent trying to play me and arent trying to make me look stupid, because I can tell you right now, I dont have time for the games. I been there, done that, dealt with that with friends and have observed what others have gone through. Anyone thats on that I'll leave her for you crap, or that yeah we can go out but we been talkin for how long crap, or the come on let me hit before I get with you or before I marry you crap can keep it moving. We can be friends but to be with me you gotta step your game up. If a person approaching me isnt planning on trying to make themselves stand out from the rest, dont even waste your time to approach me because like most you will get turned down.
For those of you who dont understand the concept of stepping your game up allow me to explain it to you. If you are stepping your game up you are bringing your game up to the next level. You have to make yourself stand out from all the others that are trying to talk to that person. You have to put in the effort and NOT slack off back into your old ways, which would be stepping your game down. The moment you do, like my follower said, someone else will come in and take over what you supposidly worked so hard to get. You will lose. So what do you prefer, to step ya game up and get the person you want, or to get them, be on the bull and lose them because you were slacking?
Someone once told me that once you can get into someone's head and have them thinking about you on a regular, you are in there. You actually have a chance, but I hope I got my message across, cause I personally feel that everything i said is something to think about.