What about us good girls...?

Some women focus on their careers, some women focus on their relationships, and other women like to focus on both. There comes a time when a woman would like to at least have an option. When I say option, I mean an option to be with someone. But what about those of us who don't have options. Those of us who have had our share of the bad boy, but are ready to meet someone who is something we have never experienced before. What about us?
There are so many girls who do so many things that aren't "right" and they get the guy they want. There are girls who put out, smash the homies, do jail time, and they get the good guy. There are girls who are successful, smart, intelligent, beautiful women, and they get the bad guy. But what about those of us who have no criminal record, come from a good family, have goals, have morals, promise to never cheat in our next relationship because we learned a big lesson from the last? Do we get a chance at love again? Do we get a chance to have an option?
I informed a friend mine that I was really into this one guy. He seemed like he had everything together. Like any other college student or college grad, he wasn't rich. He was very active in the community and had a great personality, but was back and forth. Clearly any man that is back and forth is just not that into you. But we as women like to "try" to get the man we want. Sometimes we succeed, but at other times we are just to much. But anyways, my friend told me that she has NEVER a day in her life had the issues with men that I have had. So clearly it must be me.
You can ask a man if you are the problem and any man with a heart is NOT going to say yes if he is concerned about hurting your feelings. When you look at it, when it has been three years or more, and everyone around you breaks up and find someone else and you are still sitting there waiting for your option, what else are you supposed to think? You aren't gonna think that you are just so awesome that any man wants you and your Mr. Right is gonna walk through the door. You are just setting yourself up for failure. Men have ran from me since day one. So maybe for those of us who have everything going for us, maybe women like me are supposed to be alone.
Dont get me wrong. I'm not saying I plan on being in a relationship in the immediate tomorrow...but the distant tomorrow is when I would like to have one. At this time, I'm just gonna have to get used to being alone.